8 Remarkable Things to Do with Your Life

8 Remarkable Things to Do with Your Life, Let's Reach Success

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We can all live life to the fullest, be happy and successful, leave a great legacy and be legendary.

You may doubt it and think only the lucky ones live like that, but the following list is going to change your mind.
You can build the ideal lifestyle and turn your dreams into a reality, if you do these remarkable things with your life (and stick to them).

It takes time, energy, courage and dedication. But you’re not alone. Everyone else has goals like these and fights a thousand small battles each day. But whether or not you become a winner depends on your consistency.

Start by doing these 8 things. They are what can change the course of your life and take you in the direction you’re meant to follow.

1. Find your passion

One of the most beautiful things for me is to see the look of a person who’s found their passion.
There’s such contentment, determination and peace in their eyes that you just can’t help but stay there and admire them.

People who follow their passion live a life of satisfaction, inspiration and joy. They’ve managed to find it, do something in order to make it a permanent part of their lives and, hopefully, make money and help others at the same time.

Your passion is what makes you feel alive and forget about time, it’s the thing you love doing and the activity that makes you happy.

To find it, you need to follow your heart and listen to your instincts, to notice the things that move and inspire you. Then make the best of it.


Read the rest of the article at Lifehack.

Become One, End Inequality and Live in Peace

Being an individual is a great thing as it makes you stand out from the crowd and shows you’re not just a follower, but more of a doer, someone who has his own path in life and makes his own rules.

But it’s also one of the main reasons for inequality. And if you haven’t noticed, it’s rapidly growing and has affected every single aspect of our lives.

We see inequality on the streets, in the media, at home, at school, at the workplace, even when we dig into history or make predictions about the future.

Gender discrimination, different nations with their culture, looks and religion, are something most people don’t feel comfortable to talk about, but it is also what has made us separated.

Inequality has many forms, and we take part in them every day. Be it when we pass by a homeless man without looking at him, being judgmental of a boy with tattoos, being angry at the driver in the car in front of us because it’s a woman and she’ll definitely do something wrong, choosing everyone else but the black boy while forming teams for soccer, seeing our father watching the game and drinking beer while our mother is doing the housework although her favorite reality is on right now, making a game out of stepping on ants on the street because they are so small and defenseless.

We’re not united. We’re not one with the universe, nature, other people and ourselves. But we used to be.

Here’s a story to show you what I’m talking about:

“Thousands of years ago, man lived in harmony with the rest of the natural world. Through what we would today call Telepathy, he communicated with animals, plants, and other forms of life – none of which he considered ‘beneath’ himself, only different, with different jobs to perform. He worked side by side with earth angels and nature spirits, with whom he shared responsibility for taking care of the world.

The earth’s atmosphere was very different from what it  is now, with a great deal more vegetation-supporting moisture. A tremendous variety of vegetable, fruit, seed, and grain food was available. Because of such a diet, and lack of unnatural strain, human life span was many times longer than what it is today. The killing of animals for food or ‘sport’ was unthinkable. Man lived at peace with himself and the various life forms, whom he considered his teachers and friends.

But gradually at first, and then with increasing intensity, man’s Ego began to grow and assert itself. Finally, after it had caused many unpleasant incidents, the consensus was reached that man should go out into the world alone, to learn a necessary lesson. The connections were broken.

On his own, feeling alienated from the world he had been created from, cut off from the full extent of its abundance, man was no longer happy. He began to search for the happiness he had lost. When he found something that reminded him of it, he tried to possess it and accumulate more – thereby introducing Stress into his life. But searching for lasting happiness and accumulating temporary substitutes for it brought him no satisfaction.

Be One, End Inequality and Live in Peace, Let's Reach Success

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As he was no longer able to hear what the other forms of life were saying, he could only try to understand them through their actions, which he often misinterpreted. Because he was no longer cooperating with the earth angels and nature spirits for the good of all, but was attempting to manipulate the earth forces for his benefit alone, plants began to shrivel and die. With less vegetation to draw up and give off moisture, the planet’s atmosphere became drier, and deserts appeared. A relatively small number of plant species survived, which grew smaller and tougher with passing time… Man’s life span began to shorten accordingly, and diseases appeared and spread. Because of the decreasing variety of food available to him – and his growing insensitivity – man began to kill and eat his friends the animals. They soon learned to flee from his approach and became increasingly shy and suspicious of human motives and behavior. And so the separation grew. After several generations, few people had any idea of what life had once been like.

As man became more and more manipulative of and violent toward the earth, and as his social and spiritual world narrowed to that of the human race alone, he became more and more manipulative of and violent towards his own kind. Men began to kill and enslave each other, creating armies and empires, forcing those who looked, talked, thought, and acted differently from them to submit to what they thought was best.” (“The Te of Piglet”, Benjamin Hoff)

It’s sad. But it’s all a matter of choice. Because as every other transformation, this too starts in the mind. After all, that’s where it all started.

The problem that caused all these changes and made the world as we know it today is deeply rooted in our mind – we’ve separated from our true self, other people and creatures, and nature and the universe.

Proofs are everywhere around us.

Most people won’t even agree with the fact that I’m talking about animals here, because they connect inequality only to gender discrimination and racism.
But it’s much more than that.

Then comes the extreme economic inequality. Now that’s something everyone will understand because he suffers from the consequences.
We’ve all been taught that rich people are superior to us, that it’s not fair but life is like that and we need to put up with it, that they’re lucky and we’ll never be like them. We see attitude like that from teachers, parents, and basically the average person that has no ambition and finds comfort in such excuses.

Let the numbers speak:

  • Almost half of the world’s wealth is now owned by just one percent of the population.
  • The wealth of the one percent richest people in the world amounts to $110 trillion. That’s 65 times the total wealth of the bottom half of the world’s population.
  • The bottom half of the world’s population owns the same as the richest 85 people in the world.
  • Seven out of ten people live in countries where economic inequality has increased in the last 30 years.

Conclusion: Economic and political power has separated people. Everything is in the hands of a few and it’s like the rules and taxes are made for them. While all the others suffer from daily worries and live in deprivation.

And again, I will mention the fact that it all starts in the mind. And every single one of us carries the burden of being responsible for the inequality we live in.

The moment we thought we can be cruel to nature, hurt animals, consider other people inferior to us because of their income, gender, looks, intelligence or religion, is the moment we created our nightmare. And put an end to a beautiful era of peace, compassion and love – because these are the 3 virtues we need to refind in ourselves so that we can live in harmony again.

Be One, End Inequality and Live in Peace, Let's Reach Success

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Every healing process starts with a realization and acceptance of the disease. Then we need to find out what caused it by going back in time, and then we can do something about it.

If every single person understands how our judgments, prejudices, Ego, apathy, insensitivity, lack of compassion and the desire to take rather than to give and share are a self-destructive behavior and affect every other being and the world in general, we would make the first step towards change.

Accept our mistakes, accept the past with its many innocent victims of inequality, accept the fact that it ruined our moral system, and environment. It started poverty, wars and human injustice.

And what caused all that was separation.

We separated from the universe, from others, and most importantly – from our true self.

And as it is greatly put in Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now”: After all, who in their right mind would harm another if they experienced that person as part of themselves?

You see, things weren’t meant to be this way.

Everything we see around us is made of energy. We are human magnets and attract events, things and people who have the same vibrations. And that means we’re all one.

We’ve felt that oneness at least a few times thoughout our lives – when we felt love, when we were alone in the nature seeing a magnificent view, while meditating, or every other spiritual experience. And we’ve had these indescribable emotions of true joy, bliss, contentment, gratitude, peace and calm.

That’s when we’ve been closer to our true nature, which is one with the nature of every other being on the planet.

And if oneness prevails, inequality can’t survive.

Let’s go back to the more materialistic point of the matter and state a sad fact. Did you know that ‘The top 100 billionaires added $240 billion to their wealth in 2012- enough to end world poverty four times over.?

Maybe you felt a bit happier when you didn’t.

Simple, isn’t it? The money needed for solving that global issue is in the hands of those who don’t really even need it. We live in such inequality that we allow 1% of the population to have it all.
And as we all know, with money comes power. So basically they control everything. And not giving it to the ones who have nothing speaks a lot about human nature, our level of compassion and our spiritual development.

I went through many of the different aspect of inequality (and am sure many people didn’t even consider some of my points a part of the problem) to show you that everything and everyone in the universe is connected.

And now, I want to give my answer of the question “How can we eliminate inequality?”.

Let’s start with the not-so-spiritual part.

First of all, we should all realize it’s not inevitable. There are things that can be done, but we must all be together in that.

The world has seen that before and has handled it – USA after the Great Depression and Europe after World War Two.

The governments of the countries that have a bigger level of extreme wealth and inequality should do what countries like Sweden have achieved. There you receive good treatment when being ill regardless of your income, also if you lose your job you and your family get support from the country.

Taxation is probably the core of the problem: “taxation is increasingly regressive and the poor pay higher effective tax rates than the rich”. So we should aim for progressive taxation.

There are many other steps that can be taken but before all that people’s way of thinking must be changed, we need to be more open to new political and financial systems, to be ready to make sacrifices for the greater good, to see others as equal before we become united.

If every single person does something, or at least shows interest and compassion, the governments and the riches will start thinking about it too. After all, we’re together in good and bad. And tomorrow that 1% of the population can lose everything. But until then, the rest of the world shouldn’t suffer because of that.

Change always starts in the mind. So let’s be optimistic and believe we can reverse this dangerous trend and in a few years we will have reduced inequality while growing prosperous at the same time.

And that leads us to the second, more important matter, in which lies the solution for inequality.

People, become one again!

Let go of past and future and go back to that state of mind in which you realize that we’re together in good and bad. We’re all human beings and are living right here, right now. We all have problems and daily worries, deal with the same hardships in life, need love and attention, have goals and dreams, want to travel, have a family, become financially independent, have our dream house, look good and be approved by the society. We all want to sleep better at night, to be safe and get rid of the things that make us sad. We all love good food, a chilled evening with a nice movie, adventures, presents, holidays and not playing by the rules.

Aren’t we the same then?

Be One, End Inequality and Live in Peace, Let's Reach Success

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We are.

So the next time you see someone, something, or just feel the air and see the sun, don’t consider him/it something other than you.

Instead, feel how connected you are. Share your love, appreciation, compassion. Help and give as much as you can.

That’s the path to enlightenment, true happiness and peace.

And that’s where inequality ends.


This post is inspired by and created for Blog Action Day. The subject that was chosen for this year is Inequality. And I hope that with all the amazing writings and thoughts writers from all over the world will share, we will help to raise awareness and bring hope back.



178 OXFAM BRIEFING PAPER – SUMMARY (2014) Working for the few, 20 January 2014. Oxfam GB
OXFAM MEDIA BRIEFING (2013) The cost of inequality: how wealth and extremes hurt us all, February 2013. Oxfam GB

How to Travel Light through the Journey of Life

How to Travel Light through the Journey of Life, Let's Reach Success

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You may consider yourself a traveler, who knows where to go and how to live his life to the fullest, but there’s something you don’t always realize.
And it concerns many of us.

You’re walking around with a huge backpack on your back. And that ruins your experience.

It’s exhausting. It prevents you from breathing deeply the fresh air of the beautiful nature around you, of buying new things from the place you’re at right now and that’s only because you have no space in it.

So why don’t you put it down for a while and see how it feels?

Then you’ll be free as a bird to run and jump, to look around with interest and enjoy the view, to visit places and speak with strangers.

You don’t need most of the things in the backpack anyways.

You get too many things you’re never going to use. You bring with you too much ‘just in case’ stuff , because you don’t know what’s going to happen and want to be prepared.

But guess what? Even if you bring all your belongings, you still won’t know what the future has in store for you. And that’s the beauty of life. It’s a never-ending journey full of surprises.

You also bring more pairs of clothes than you need because you think they’re not going to be enough.

You bring stuff from home that is not meant to leave your place or made for travelling. But it makes you feel comfortable.

All this ruins your journey and that of the ones you’re travelling with.

It feels so good when you don’t need to carry the backpack all the time. So imagine what it will be like if you leave it somewhere and never go back to it again.

The solution, again – as for many other things in life, lies in simplicity. In the beautiful act of letting go, eliminating what’s not needed so that the essential can shine.

It’s the same even if you’re not going to see another place of the world.

Think about your days.

Day after day you carry with you bad memories from the past, fears, worries about the future, doubts and uncertainties, many desires, expectations, needs, etc.

And all that makes your life a dreading experience. You can never take a break and empty your mind even if you’re not doing anything.

You keep carrying this huge backpack with you wherever you go. And other people in your life have to put up with it as well, they suffer because of your excess baggage.
This is often a reason for bad relationships.

Why don’t you throw it away then and see what happens?

The truth is that nothing bad is going to happen, things will be alright even if you stop worrying about what others think of you and whether what you do is right.

The past will still be there but this time it won’t prevent you from living your life; you’ll still communicate with people but this time you won’t be afraid that they won’t approve you or that they won’t answer your expectations.

You’ll be free. Free to enjoy this moment, to focus on what is now, to appreciate what you have and live life to the fullest.

Life is a big adventure, a beautiful journey that is meant to be travelled light.

The only way to make the best of it and enjoy each second is to put down that backpack and let things be.


5 Self-limiting Beliefs That Ruin Our Social Life

5 Self-limiting Beliefs That Ruin Our Social Life, Let's Reach Success

I Can’t See You… by Peter @Flickr

Everybody has problems and issues but not everybody does something about them.

In fact, most people don’t even want to admit having them, not to mention defining them.

We live in a world where conventional wisdom dominates and being happy means being average. But that’s terribly wrong.

Actually most of the time we feel that something is just not right and things could be better. We have our strong moments and realizations when we are aware of our potential and the things we can do with our life. Unfortunately, that doesn’t last long.

The main problem is our self-limiting beliefs.

You can read the rest of my post here.

Letting Go of Anger

I just had an argument with my dad. Another one.

Honestly, no one can annoy me that fast except for the people I love the most.

I’m not going to make excuses now or even explain the situation in details. It was just another case of anger provoked by random daily things, then he started mentioning other old reasons for quarrels and things escalated.

But this time I managed to let go of anger.

You all know how when someone annoys you, you want to react in the same way, say something bad, scream, or else. And we all regret it after that. Because whatever we say or do is caused by the adrenaline, and is not at all real.

So I just took a few deep breaths (it really helps to calm down instantly), looked at things from another point of view and came up with the following conclusions which I think can help you too when you’re on the verge of getting angry:

  • You shouldn’t take things personally and must always put yourself in the shoes of the other person.

My dad has problems on his own and is often more angry at himself rather than at me, even though he’s not satisfied with the things I do. So instead of reacting and making things even worse, I decided to understand him.

  • The other person’s expectations aren’t met.

He expected things to turn out in a certain way, and as it always happens – they didn’t. He wanted me to do or say what he imagined me doing and saying, but I have another understanding of the world and am an individual with my own way of thinking, so I do things my way.
That’s why he got disappointed, probably expected too much as well. Then the only way to let these emotions out for him was getting angry at me.
Understanding that helped me a lot.

  • Be compassionate.

Showing compassion towards someone is always the right thing to do. I decided to see my dad as the emotional human being he is, with all his worries and fears, problems and burdens. That helped me let go of anger immediately. I felt peace after the burst of adrenaline.

  • Arguing is just not worth it.

Sometimes saying nothing is the best decision. It’s hard, it means making a compromise, but later you’ll thank yourself. That’s what I did.

  • Try to be objective.

What if the other person is actually right and you just can’t see it because you’re blinded by past experiences and your own ideals and opinion?
It’s possible. And many times at least 5-10% of what the other person says is true.
I thought about that even though I didn’t want to admit it. But then felt relieved.

  • Don’t see him as your opponent.

People often play the role we give them. They feel our vibrations and if we are aggressive and consider them enemies, they behave like one.

So I saw him just as my dad. Not as someone that’s angry, bad to me, or an opponent. Just my dad. And that simple thing made me smile and say nothing more to provoke him.

If you only learn to accept things and people as they are, you’ll never need to experience an argument again. Only that little but significant habit will help you get over anything you encounter.

Accepting means being okay with things, which means there’s no pressure, effort, denial or a desire to change things. And that’s a sign of no suffering. So when you accept and let things be, you’re truly happy and life is easy and pleasant.

Having these things in mind, and many others, help us deal with hard stuff in life. They include understanding, accepting, compassion and letting go and are the ultimate language of kindness and going with the flow. A life lived by them is always a good life.

I’m not yet successful at anger management. I know things in theory, but not always in practice. Often I let my emotions out without thinking, and feel bad afterwards. But small steps lead to great progress and noticing my anger every now and then is still a big thing for me.

And if you don’t know where to start, that’s the best way – begin with noticing when anger comes, in what situation, what provokes it, how you want to react, etc.
Then you can analyze it and stop it before it has even risen.

But whatever you decide to do, know that letting go is the ultimate freedom. It means letting in peace and contentment and freeing yourself from the burden of what has already happened, what is out of your control and what is not worth worrying about.

That’s some progress in my personal development and I’m grateful for it. But if it wasn’t for Leo’s books and posts on Zen Habits, it would have taken me much longer. He made me see how easy and simple things are, and his writings on letting go helped me the most. It’s worth visiting the blog if you haven’t already.

5 Simple Steps to Live Life Freely

Freedom is funny. We all want it, but we don’t always make the right changes in our habits and lifestyle in order get it. We repeat the same old routines and keep living a life of constant worries, complexity, stress and illusion.

Here are five simple but powerful steps you can take in order to live life freely.

That’s also my first official post for Lifehack.org as a contributor. Many more to come.

Things I Choose to Do in My 20s

The 20s are the best time to do anything you want. It’s not too early and not too late, so the possibilities are countless.

Things I Choose to Do in My 20s, Let's Reach Success

By Natesh Ramasamy @Flickr

If you’re in your 30s, 40s or else, you can still do whatever you want with your life. You may have more limitations, though, most of which are only in your mind, but age can’t stop you when you have a burning desire, a dream or a need to change.

So even if you’re not in your 20s, you can do the following things to some extent. But if you are, I think they are a must.

This list contains the things I’m currently doing with my life. And it doesn’t mean I’m working on my goals all the time. I also do all the time-wasting activities everyone else does, I’ve got my unhealthy habits, bad moments and periods of just doing nothing.

Sometimes, I may seem like a random 22-year-old girl with no big plans and a direction. That’s because I don’t really talk about these things and people in my life know me only to the point I want them to know me. So, of course, wrong conclusions are inevitable.
And as far as I know I’m on the right track for myself, I’m alright with the opinion of others.

So here are the things I chose to do in my 20s:

  • follow my passion

It’s a rare thing nowadays for a young person to know what he wants to do with his life and to have serious intentions to get it. I’m glad I found my passion and especially that I’m doing something about it every day.

  • working on making it my career

It’s also important to know what you don’t want to do with your life. And sometimes it’s easier to figure it out.
I’m sure that I don’t want to have a 9-5 job, work for someone else and depend on him, do stuff I hate, wait for the day to be over, dread Mondays because of that, become a depressed person and to top it all, make an amount of money that will never be enough to help me afford the lifestyle I want.

That’s why I’m working on making my passion my career.

  • trying new things

Now is the perfect time to do it. I’m talking about things that a real adult can’t really do.
For instance, I took another course in Italian more than a year ago, now I’m learning Dutch, went swimming for a few times (I ditched it after a few lessons but don’t feel bad about that as it was just an experiment), and I just finished a short course in bartending. I was planning on working that this summer but a much better opportunity came up and I just couldn’t reject it. But I had a great time there, met interesting people and learnt new skills which was so fun. And I can always practice it if there’s nothing better to do (but I expect much better things to come along).

  • learning new languages

I love foreign languages. Italian is my favorite but I’m open for every other.
Some time ago I learnt how to write and read in Hebrew, have been learning German for a few years back in high school (but it’s just not my thing and I don’t enjoy it so I haven’t practiced it since), I have some knowledge in Russian as it’s close to my language. My new favorite country is Holland (have friends there, love the culture and paid a visit recently). And it’s my new goal to speak Dutch well by the beginning of next summer.

  • choosing principles to live by and staying true to the
  • perfect timing

I know I’ll probably never have as much free time and lack of responsibilities as I do now. So I’m trying to appreciate it and make the best of it.

  • started simplifying my life  
  • do my best not to end up in a bad relationship

I know it may last for years and have so many people around me that choose to be with the wrong person just because they don’t want to end up alone. But you can’t be alone in your 20s. That’s something you’ll worry about later.

To stay in a bad relationship and put up with someone that treats you bad is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.

  • making fitness a daily habit

Now is the time to get in shape.

  • figure out who my real friends are – the ones I want to stay in my life, and investing in these relationships
  • traveling

That’s an important one. You can never be sure if later you’ll have the time, chance or money to travel the world, so it’s best to start now. It’s one of the greatest things everyone can do with their lives.

  • living life to the fullest

I do that too. And I’m pretty good at it. But I also have my antisocial periods as I’m more of an introvert.

  • not getting into debt

In Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s (a part of the 21 Convention), I heard a great rule and realized I actually stick to it. It says:

If you can’t pay cash, it’s not for you!

I have many friends who went to study abroad, and of course it’s better to get your education (if you’re serious about it) in England rather than here, in Bulgaria. But they got in a big dept because of that and technically, started their student life by taking money they don’t have that will need to be returned when they graduate university. That’s a big burden.

  • try to listen to what older people (or those with more experience) are saying

They know better. I’m glad I realize it at that point.

  • finding role models

I have my role models and people I look up to. That’s priceless. And it doesn’t really matter whether they are people from your surrounding or someone you follow only online and whose books you’re reading. Having a mentor is a key.

  • choose experience over material stuff

I choose to welcome experience. That’s why when I have some spare money, I’d always go abroad or take up an exciting course, instead of buying top technologies.

  • completing education

I don’t really enjoy it, but I’ll go through it. It’s once in a lifetime and now is the right moment.
Many people start it and when other things happen at the same time, they take a year off. That usually turns into a few years and some never complete their education. Others don’t go to uni at all, and eventually regret it.

That’s why I will finish my education and get a master degree, regardless of the fact that my career plans are different.

  • having a vision

Another important one!
I’ve figured out what I want, have some big ideas and plans and have started working on them. Vision is everything. There’s no action, and of course results, without it.

I hope you agree with me on all that.

Which item do you think is most important? And what other things should a person do in his 20s?