Why Today is The Best Time to Be Whoever You Want to Be 80

today you can be whoever you want to be

We live in a world where a person who has a camera, takes photos and uploads them online, is a photographer.
If he makes a portfolio website, has a Facebook page with a profile photo in which he’s taking a picture of something (or himself in the mirror with his camera in his hands), and has shared his contact details so that people can use his services and buy his photos, he can call himself a professional.

And whether he makes any income or not, matters only to him. To all of us, he’s just a professional photographer, an artist, a self-employed individual, someone who works whenever he wants doing what he loves, with an online business, even an entrepreneur.

People with a regular job often mock independent creatives like that (only when they’re not famous, of course, and make no money out of it. When they start getting hired, though, and make enough to be location independent, these same people want to know their ‘secret’.)

My point is that with the countless possibilities (mainly the Internet) of the modern world, we can be whoever we want to be.

Here are some other examples:

Upload something on Etsy.com and -Voala!- you’re into e-commerce.
Write something, post it, and you can call yourself both a writer and a blogger.
Start travelling and keep an online journal of it, and you become a travel writer, a digital nomad.

And if you’re really dedicated to whatever your thing is, are constantly practicing, trying to reach others and connect with influencers and potential clients, promote yourself and have a strong belief, you can make a career out of it.

Take me for example.

Some time ago I created a portfolio site where I label myself as a blogger, an indie author and a freelance writer.
To those who know me in real life and have no idea that I spend a lot of my time writing, editing, blogging, socializing, brainstorming, reading, researching and looking for writing jobs, it will sound absolutely ridiculous.

But here are the facts: I have a blog that’s 2 years old, has 200 articles, is being read and followed, has views and shares; I post almost daily, and write for other blogs too. All that makes me a blogger.
I wrote some eBooks, edited and formatted them, self-published and started selling them. Which makes me an indie author.

I write for other people too. I have profiles in sites for freelancers, I submit proposals for jobs in my niche, work with clients and get paid for it (not nearly as often as I’d like, though, but we all start somewhere).
And that automatically makes me a freelance writer. And I’ve got a service to offer.

The conclusion, then, is that in today’s world you can be whoever you want to be.

Start looking for ways to change your habits and think of easier and quicker ways to do stuff, and you become a life hacker. That makes you an interesting person and you already have material to write about and share.
You improve your life, gain experience, learn from your mistakes, and share all that with others, and after some time you become an authority for those who haven’t reached that level. Your tips and strategies, and basically everything you have to say, becomes valuable and people are willing to pay for it.

But how far you get exploring all these possibilities is up to you.

It all starts with a passion that is followed, with an idea that is developed and put into action, a dream that is being chased, and your work put out there for others.

What separates you from the ideal lifestyle are the excuses you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it, and the possibilities you don’t dare to take.

What about you? Do you think we can be whoever we want to be these days?

See also:

Who we really are?
How to find the meaning of life and reach a state of peace
Find the why that makes you cry
The real face of passion and how it can change your life
Put your heart and soul into what you do
The reason you wake up

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10 Things Uber Successful People Do in the Morning 15

10 Things Uber Successful People Do in the Morning

Who doesn’t want to be successful? Whatever our purpose in life may be, we want to achieve success with it. Although success is usually perceived as career growth, it also encompasses personal growth. These two things go together.

So what can we do to reach the personal and professional growth of uber successful people? Maybe we can imitate some of their habits. Their morning rituals, in particular, set the pace of the day.

Did you know that the way you start your mornings affects your entire day?

You probably felt that, but guess what: science proves it as a fact, too.

In a study called “Waking up on the wrong side of the bed: start-of-workday mood, work events, employee affect, and performance,” researchers found that whatever the mood of workers was during the morning, they preserved it throughout the entire day.

So if you start off in a good mood, you have greater chances of having a great day. That’s why morning routines are so important.

Let’s learn from the ultra successful people, shall we? How do they start their mornings?

What The Most Successful Do in The Morning

1. Spend Time with the Partner.


As we said, success is not only about professional achievements. It also means having the right person by your side.

Take Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan as an example. They are both crazy successful, and they are definitely happy to have each other.

Waking up next to the person you love makes every morning special. Appreciate that moment. Have a coffee together. Talk. Be glad you’re there for each other.

2. Mindfulness.

Yes; mindfulness is a habit.

Successful people are always busy. Can you imagine a hectic morning with dozens of urgent email messages, business partners calling, and the kids yelling? And they are still in their pajamas! That’s why they practice mindfulness.

Researchers from The University of Sydney found that mindfulness reduces work-related stress and improves the mood at work. That’s why successful people always seem ready to deal with any situation.

So how do you practice mindfulness in the morning?

Just wake up. Take few deep breaths. Be aware of the present moment. Be aware of the responsibilities the day ahead will bring. Relax, and tell yourself that you’re ready.

3. Plan the Day.

A good plan will set you on the right track.

Plan your tasks for the day in the morning. When you have such an outline, it will be easier to handle all responsibilities. You’ll know you’ll have time for all tasks.

If you realize there’s not enough time, you should plan how to outsource. If, for example, you cannot complete a business report, you can hire assignment masters to write or edit it for you.

4. Exercise.

I know; it’s a cliché. However, it’s also an activity that works.

Physical exercise makes you fitter, but it also makes you happierWhen you’re done with your morning exercise ritual, you feel at ease, and things start to clear up.

Most successful people exercise. Hillary Clinton does yoga. Obama works out for 45 minutes six days per week. Mark Cuban does cardio fitness. Follow their example!

5. Practice Patience.

Too many things ahead? If your schedule is busy, you’ll be eager to get things done ASAP. The morning is the period of the day when you should practice patience. Relax.

You already made a plan. There’s time for everything. You’ll get through the day. For now, cherish this precious moment of morning relaxation.

6. Juice Up.

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It’s no wonder why so many celebrities are into the latest juice detox trend. Healthy juices give you valuable nutrients and make you feel more energized.

Have a different juice every single morning. Sure, the juicer will take some cleaning after, but the juice will certainly give you enough energy for that.

7. Eat Breakfast.

You saw this coming, didn’t you?

Uber successful people know that the breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It’s even better when it’s healthy.

Yes; the juice can be your breakfast, but it won’t make you feel full for long. If you don’t intend to have a standard breakfast, pack some fruit for work. A banana and an apple are mandatory!

8. Hydrate.

Have a glass of water as soon as you wake up. Hydration is essential for the way your entire system functions.

9. Be With the Right People.

In Tools of Titans, author Timothy Ferriss refers to a so-called “five chimps theory” in zoology. According to that theory, you can predict the behavior of any chimp if you analyze the five chimps they usually hang out with.

There’s a lot of wisdom in that theory. When you surround with nervous people, you’re nervous, too. When you surround yourself with positive characters, you reflect good vibes, too.

The first people you contact in the morning will set the mood for your day. Choose them carefully.

10. Celebrate Achievements.

When you wake up with a positive mindset, you’ll boost your chances of spending a good day.

Instead of thinking about all obstacles ahead, you should take time to think about all achievements you’ve made towards your current goals. This appreciation will convince you that you’re on the right track.

When we sum things up, all these morning habits of the ultra successful people seem pretty simple, don’t they?

However, it takes tons of persistence and commitment to stay true to them. Start by making small steps. Pick few of these activities and repeat them every day, until they turn into habits.   

Cathy Baylis is a personal growth expert who writes insightful articles that motivate and challenge others. She has worked as a writer for a little over a decade now, and owns several blogs that she updates on her free time.