8 Things We Do Wrong When Building New Habits

things we do wrong when building new habits

The big transformation in life we desire usually starts with a permanent change in our behavior. We need to first focus on the things we do daily – our habits – so that we can see progress and get rid of the bad ones.

But the interesting thing is that the process of elimination comes first. So before trying to build new habits and make them stick, it’s smart to analyze what we do wrong and stop it.

So here are the 8 top mistakes we make when developing new habits:

That’s a guest post I wrote for Addicted2Success.
You can read the whole article here.

The 8 Things We Do Wrong When It Comes to Habits

1. We work on too many things at the same time.

That’s a sure way to failure. Our mind just doesn’t perform well when we focus it on building or quitting more than 1-3 habits at once.

So start small. Choose one thing and pay your full attention to it. Once you get used to it, move onto the next.

2. We start big.

That’s one of the main reasons New Year’s resolutions fail most of the time. We just make huge changes and expect ourselves to either succeed or fail.

But we’re talking about changing our lifestyle here, so we should start small, take tiny steps and see progress all the time instead of taking a leap and failing.

3. We aren’t consistent.

It won’t really matter if you do the new habit for a month and then stop. Consistency is what gives permanent results. And, unfortunately, it’s one of the things we do wrong.

4. We aren’t focused.

5. We don’t take it seriously.

Starting small and working on one habit at a time usually makes people think it’s not that big of a deal. And they often give up because of that.

But you need to take it seriously so that you can stay consistent and motivated until change actually happens.

6. We don’t know why we do what we do.

And without our why, we don’t see any point to keep going.

So find your purpose, be specific, get clear about it. Define the reason you want to change your lifestyle.

7. We wait for results from the start.

8. We give up after one failure.

Here it’s about dedication. But also about understanding failure.

We have a wrong perception of what it is, really. If we did understand how valuable it is, we wouldn’t fear it at all.

Failure is experience, knowledge and priceless lessons. But only if we’re open to learn from it. Once we do, we can try again and know what not to do this time.

So what do you think? Which of these are you doing wrong? What can you do about it?

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How Supplements Can Improve Your Overall Health

How Supplements Can Improve Your Overall Health

Dietary requirements, allergies, intolerances, illnesses and other factors can prevent us from getting optimum nutrients and vitamins from food alone. That’s why millions of people all over the world take supplements each day, whether they are recommended by a doctor to treat a deficiency, or just to ensure people get enough of what their diet lacks.

In this article, we’ll give a list of popular recommended supplements to top up your diet and ensure you’re getting the correct dosage of some important nutrients.

Most supplements can be taken harmlessly with no side effects, but you should always thoroughly check labels and get proper medical advice if you’re unsure. For instance, St John’s Wort is widely considered an herbal remedy for depression but can actually decrease the effectivity of contraceptive pills.

For insight into your personal needs, consult with a doctor or nutritionist. Especially if you have a condition that restricts your diet, or you simply want to check that a particular supplement won’t affect any medication you take.

Popular Supplements


Probiotics are live bacteria usually taken in tablet or powder form as supplements for a healthy digestion and immune system. It helps ‘good’ gut bacteria flourish, which in turn helps your immune system to kill bad bacteria that could make you sick.


Prebiotics basically enable the full effect of probiotics to take hold – think of it like a fertilizer enabling garden plants to properly grow. Find the best prebiotic supplement by visiting chemists, health stores or online.


Multivitamins are a great solution for busy people. Simply pop one tablet that contains a cocktail of essential vitamins and nutrients! Most multivitamins contain things necessary for everybody, like vitamins A, E, C, K; folic acid; calcium; phosphorous; magnesium; iron; iodine; and plenty more.

Vitamin C

Vitamin C is necessary to get through food sources or supplements each day because it can’t be stored in the human body. It’s an antioxidant which increases the volume of iron we can absorb from foods – therefore those with iron deficiency or anaemia should get lots of vitamin C too. It is easily found in fresh vegetables, citrus fruits or supplements, which you can buy cheaply in supermarkets.

Vitamin D

Vitamin D is necessary for the body to absorb calcium and phosphate for healthy bones. Supplements help to ensure you get enough daily vitamin D, but you can get it in your diet by eating lots of fatty fish, red meat and eggs. (Vegetarians and vegans therefore should invest in supplements.)

Vitamin B12

Vitamin B12 facilitates the proper functioning of the nervous system and is involved in the creation of blood cells. It’s vital that everyone gets enough B12.

Though it is usually found in meat and animal products like chicken, milk and eggs – this is another essential supplement for those following a vegetarian or vegan diet.


Iron is especially vital for women and pregnant women. It is involved in the transportation of oxygen around the body in the blood, which is needed to create energy.

If you experience fatigue, you could be lacking iron or suffering from anaemia. Iron supplements are helpful to top up your blood iron, but you could also eat a diet full of spinach, broccoli, nuts, seeds, brown rice, dried fruit and red meat.


Zinc is said to regulate immune function, have effects on memory and learning ability, and help wounds heal quickly. It’s possible to get too much zinc, so it is mostly included in multivitamins rather than a supplement on its own.


Calcium is important for healthy bones. Since it is most prevalent in dairy products, vegans or just those who don’t eat much dairy should consider taking a supplement, or a multivitamin containing calcium.

Cod liver oil

Cod liver oil contains plenty of omega-3, vitamin A and vitamin D. It can help with skin diseases, like eczema and rashes, and can help reduce inflammation of the joints and arthritis.

Eating a diet full of fresh foods is essential for good overall health. Though if your diet restricts you from getting some of these necessary vitamins, supplements are a helpful and convenient way to replace them. Ask a doctor’s advice for help with balancing your diet, or you’re experiencing any symptoms associated with lack of vitamins.