You Don’t Have to Be in Crisis to Benefit from Couples Counseling

The Importance of Communication in Couples

This article is a guest post.

If couples counseling conjures up images of people on the brink of divorce making a last-ditch effort, think again.

Counseling isn’t just for married couples having issues. In fact, you don’t necessarily need to be romantic partners at all to benefit.

Providers of couples counseling Philadelphia like The Center for Growth often help siblings and business associates as well as romantic partners at any stage of their relationship.

Here are some examples of non-cataclysmic situation that can be helped through counseling.

Making Major Life Decisions.

Perhaps you and your spouse are thinking about starting a family. This is a big step, and it’s a life-changer.

Maybe one of you has just received a serious medical diagnosis. Events like these can throw anyone for a loop. Having someone who’s trained to help you develop communication and coping skills can help you avert a crisis and make decisions with more clarity and less emotion.

When There’s a Major Lifestyle or Background Difference.

Love is love, but relationships that may have social, economic or other issues attached test even the strongest commitments at times.

Counseling can help couples who have a large age difference, are from different cultures or same-sex couples gain strength and handle issues like social pressures or bigotry, and come through stronger and more untied than ever.

Long-Term Estrangement.

Imagine meeting the child you gave up for adoptions or the parent you never knew existed. These are situations where meeting with a couples counselor can help you resolve issues like resentment and uncertainty, and rebuild – or create – a bond that was broken.

“Non-Couple” Couples.

Are you in terminal conflict with a co-worker or immediate relative? Couples counseling can take the same principals of effective communication and dispute resolution and apply them to non-romantic situations as well.

Coping With Positivity.

Believe it or not, sometimes good new can be stressful and difficult to deal with. How would you handle a major upheaval like sudden wealth or a trajectory-changing job opportunity? Counseling can help you through potential minefields that may seem like a walk in the park on the surface.

Counseling doesn’t have to be scary, and you don’t need to think it’s over if your partner suggests it. Think of it as a safe space where you can have an objective sounding board to help you see new perspectives or keep your already amazing relationship going strong. Talk to a licensed couple’s counselor near you to learn more.

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8 Tips for Women to Help Grow Their Career

8 Tips for Women to Help Grow Their Career

Why are there so few female CEOs? It’s a commonly discussed topic in the Australian business landscape, and often highlighted as an issue in society.

This has been made evident in the inaugural Robert Half CEO Tracker, commissioned by specialised recruiter Robert Half to identify common traits amongst the leaders of the ASX 200-listed companies. The research found the top position in the workplace is still male-dominated, as the majority of ASX 200 CEOs are men (94%). Only 12 ASX 200 CEOs are women.

It’s an unfortunate fact of the current C-suite employment market, with women underrepresented in top positions – a fact that applies to not only ASX 200-listed companies.

Despite this, it’s well known that diversified boardrooms with women represented across leadership positions bring enormous value to organisations and the wider business community. This is not just because of their wealth of experience and knowledge. But also because of their diverse perspective applied to business strategy that’s required for any organisation to succeed.

Whilst looking at the low percentage of female CEOs, within our Executive Search branch, we’re seeing a strong push for diversity from companies looking to hire at the C-suite level. Organisations are actively specifying diversity in their recruitment agendas, and not only just based on gender, but on an all-inclusive approach.

While there still is a long way to go for women to be represented equally at the boardroom table, it’s encouraging to acknowledge just how far Australian women have come and actively promote steps they can take to further their careers in the business world. More can always be done to empower women within the workplace. And understanding the common professional characteristics of top Australian CEOs is a great place to start their C-suite journey.

For women looking to hone their personal attributes, CEOs need to be clear communicators who are capable of both giving direction and accepting expert opinion. And as with all leadership positions, exceptional people skills are essential. By being assertive, forward-thinking and willing to take risks, ambitious women in the workplace can ascend the corporate ladder to the top job just as fast as their male counterparts.

How Women Can Grow Their Career

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1. Know what you really want.

Think about what you want to achieve in your career – and why. Ask yourself some important questions:

  • As a senior executive would you be willing to work long hours and take up extra responsibilities?
  • Do you like to solve complex problems?
  • Are you comfortable as a leader?
  • And, crucially, how do your family feel about you pursuing a career as a business leader?

2. Develop a career plan.

Determine what you want to achieve, and work out a detailed career plan. This will be a blueprint that maps out your journey to the top of your organisation, allowing you to focus on your ultimate career goals.

3. Work continuously on your leadership skills.

Developing leadership skills is an ongoing process and an essential element for women pursuing a management position. By developing your technical, managerial and social skills, you are more likely to climb the corporate ladder – and be better prepared for the challenges you face along the way.

4. Communicate (more) directly.

Well-developed communication skills are essential for all managers. Yet men and women often have different communication styles.

Women usually take on a more modest tone, and often tend to communicate in an assuming way (“wouldn’t it be better”, “could we perhaps”, etc.). However, for a male audience – who usually communicate in a more direct way – this style of communication can suggest you lack confidence or are unsure about the matter at hand.

5. Take risks.

Women are usually less inclined to take risks than men. Yet this is part of being a leader. If you can prove you are willing to take calculated, carefully considered risks, you’re more likely to assume a managerial position.

6. Offer to take on certain tasks, even those nobody else wants.

A willingness to take on additional projects or raise your hand for tasks that others are sidestepping, can showcase your skills beyond your normal job duties. This is a great way to demonstrate you’re a team player, who is willing to go the extra mile for the company.

7. Do not be afraid to stand out.

All great leaders stand out from the crowd. As a manager, it’s likely you will have to make tough, and at times, unpopular decisions, so be prepared to set yourself apart from others in good times – and in bad.

8. Build your network.

People like to work with people they know. So do not underestimate the possibilities offered by traditional and online networking. Building your network can be important to getting ahead.

About The Author

Robert Half Executive Search specialises in the search for and placement of executive leadership talent across a broad spectrum of function areas and industry sectors.

By being assertive, forward-thinking and willing to take risks, ambitious women in the workplace can ascend the corporate ladder to the top job just as fast as their male counterparts. Here are 8 tips to help women grow their career