Here are some examples of non-cataclysmic situation that can be helped through counseling.
Making Major Life Decisions.
Perhaps you and your spouse are thinking about starting a family. This is a big step, and it’s a life-changer.
Maybe one of you has just received a serious medical diagnosis. Events like these can throw anyone for a loop. Having someone who’s trained to help you develop communication and coping skills can help you avert a crisis and make decisions with more clarity and less emotion.
When There’s a Major Lifestyle or Background Difference.
Love is love, but relationships that may have social, economic or other issues attached test even the strongest commitments at times.
Counseling can help couples who have a large age difference, are from different cultures or same-sex couples gain strength and handle issues like social pressures or bigotry, and come through stronger and more untied than ever.
Imagine meeting the child you gave up for adoptions or the parent you never knew existed. These are situations where meeting with a couples counselor can help you resolve issues like resentment and uncertainty, and rebuild – or create – a bond that was broken.
Are you in terminal conflict with a co-worker or immediate relative? Couples counseling can take the same principals of effective communication and dispute resolution and apply them to non-romantic situations as well.
Coping With Positivity.
Believe it or not, sometimes good new can be stressful and difficult to deal with. How would you handle a major upheaval like sudden wealth or a trajectory-changing job opportunity? Counseling can help you through potential minefields that may seem like a walk in the park on the surface.
Counseling doesn’t have to be scary, and you don’t need to think it’s over if your partner suggests it. Think of it as a safe space where you can have an objective sounding board to help you see new perspectives or keep your already amazing relationship going strong. Talk to a licensed couple’s counselor near you to learn more.
In today’s world, most jobs are demanding both physically and mentally. Competition is not always based on the best resume, education, or experience. Having the upper hand in your profession is most likely linked to your ability to think quickly, act appropriately, and carry out difficult duties with the utmost quality.
You need to be able to bring something new, different, and maybe even better to the table. So, how can you get the edge? How can you maximize your professional potential and output?
Believe it or not, the answer to that question might be found outside the workplace. It may be what you do when you are not at work that makes the difference in your work. What is it? EXERCISE, that’s what!
Replace Some Screen Time or Other Time Wasters.
Everyone needs to take a break from the workday. Television, gaming, social media, and video-viewing are what we often go to for this.
Try replacing some of your downtime with exercise, or trying exercising while you are in front of the screen. Exercising instead of sitting will not onlyhelp relieve some stress from your day but also help release some built up tension so you can actually rest better at night, helping you be better prepared for the next work day.
Exercising a few hours before bedtime elevates your body temperature. When your body temperature returns to normal, your brain and body are ready to sleep.
While researchers may not have found the cure for dementia-related disorders, they do know that exercise helps delay onset or slow down its progression. Exercising during the years of 25 – 45 can boost the brain chemicals that prevent shrinking of the brain. It has also been shown to create new brain cells and increase proteins found in the brain that help keep thinking skills sharp.
Exercise Reduces Sick Time.
Exercise improves general health functioning and helps build your immunity to illnesses.
It has also been shown to increase our ability to think and work under stress, rather than giving in to the stress and being more susceptible to illness.
This keeps you reporting to work on a regular basis, and taking less sick days. The more you are at work, the more productive you are, and the more your employer values you.
Working Out Increases Your Stamina.
Long work days can leave you drained and listless. If you know you are facing long meetings, strenuous work sessions, or overtime for increased production demands, you can prepare to meet these challenges head-on.
As you exercise, over time your stamina will be able to withstand longer and more strenuous workouts. It also translates into helping you stay sharp during those long, arduous workdays.
Yes, How You Look Does Count.
While it may never be mentioned,your appearance is noticed by employers, co-workers, interviewers, etc. You do not necessarily need to look like a buff bodybuilder, but having a svelte, strong appearance is a benefit.
Other’s first perception of you is of great importance. Think about interviewing prospective employees. Honestly consider the impact of their first impression on their employment outlook. Healthy looking is definitely a check in the “yes” column.
Energy levels are also higher when you are exercising regularly, and your energy is part of how you are perceived overall. When you start to feel better about yourself, you begin to present a more positive image to your coworkers.
It Boosts Your Confidence.
When you have conquered a goal in your exercise plan, like being able to run an entire mile instead of having to stop and walk some, you know you have accomplished something. You are on your way to bigger and better goals.
There may have been times along the way that you felt like that milestone would never come, but here it is. You feel proud and motivated to keep working toward your next goal. You see the fruits of your labor. You are energized and begin to feel better about yourself overall.
You begin to feel a sense of accomplishment that does not leave when you exit the gym doors. You carry that as a boost in your confidence as you go into work.
Bring the Habits of Exercise to Work.
What else do you learn through exercise? Goal setting, resilience, perseverance, learning new things, taking chances, organizing and managing your time, just to name a few. These are great skills to boost your performance at work, too.
You begin to realize that you can take what you have learned through setting up and sticking with an exercise plan to the workplace. You can use all these skills in your career. As you do, you will become more confident and thus, more effective in your daily tasks.
All of these are learned by starting, committing to, and following through with a fitness plan, and can become more of a life plan.
If you are looking for a job, being physically fit might not get you the job, but it will definitely help your chances. Your first impression is incredibly important, so do not brush off exercise and fitness lightly.
Exercise has so many benefits like sharpening thinking, building stamina, increasing energy, reducing negative effects of stress, building immunity, and boosting self-confidence. This can really help you in your professional success.
The benefits extend beyond your exercise time.
They stay with you day in and day out. If you are not currently exercising regularly, just start today, doing something small. Some sit-ups in front of the television, taking the stairs instead of the elevator,cleaning up your diet, or increasing your walking pace as you move around the office are good ways to get started. You will feel the benefits, even with these small steps.