How to Fill The Void Inside and Live a Life Full of Purpose

Fill the Void, Live with purpose, Let's Reach Success

Have you ever felt empty on the inside? Do you recall moments when you felt like something was missing?

Many people live with a void inside. They feel like everything is meaningless, nothing helps, and want to escape reality.

And they seek relief in temporary sources of happiness like food, alcohol, a certain person, gambling, shopping, drugs, etc. They believe it will give them some ease, some comfort that will make them feel better. But then they feel even worse.

Because the void is deep down, and can’t be cured using outer sources.

The healing happens inside of you, because that’s where it all started.

First, you need to realize what’s going on. You need to understand that you’re searching for completeness in some random activities (often unhealthy), in other people, or places.

But they can’t give you that.

What’s causing that void?

It may be due to a life of no purpose, living without direction, without meaning. Not knowing why you do the things you do, not having figured out what’s important.

And you’ll always have that voice deep down, which is telling you that you can do much more, you can achieve big things in your life. And that will remind you of the fact that you’re not doing anything about it now.

Many people turn to the easy solution – they try to escape that feeling of unworthiness, of being no one, of doing nothing. And they choose to distract themselves, which makes things worse.

Because the void gets even bigger. And you feel even emptier.

It may also be because of a lack of connection with your true self.

If you keep lying to yourself, not believing in your abilities, running away from problems, not helping others, not sharing what’s bothering you, not loving and appreciating yourself – then you’ll be miserable, and frustrated, and desperate.

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What to do to feel complete again?

It’s time to stop hiding from the truth, avoiding the hard stuff, trying to fill the emptiness with random things.

Keep in mind that many others are dealing with that too. They’re struggling every day with their inner voices, still hearing them, but trying to make them be quiet.

So here’s what to do:

  1. Understand that void. Be okay with it. – Observe it. Try to actually see it, feel it. And you’ll know why it’s there.
  1. Realize that you’re complete just the way you are. – You don’t need anyone else to feel better. You can be happy, you deserve it.
  1. Fill it:
  • see the fullness of life, the abundance you have and ignore what’s missing;
  • focus on the present moment, let go of past and future;
  • don’t expect anything;
  • breathe deeply and try to realize how amazing life is, how blessed you are;
  • appreciate all you have;
  • be positive – know your strengths and work on them, leave the weak points behind;
  • be mindful of everything you do, be fully there;
  • feel the freedom – there are so many opportunities around, each day is a chance to start over, to change for the better;
  • start every day with gratitude – thank for everything that was, is and will be; believe that whatever it is, it’s for the best and is the perfect thing for that exact moment;
  • do what you feel like doing, and enjoy it;
  • find your purpose, know your ‘why’ and everything will suddenly have meaning;
  • meditate – learn how to clear your mind every now and then, to just be still and notice your thoughts, emotions and breathing.

I believe that by doing all these, you can change your approach to life.
You can start living in abundance, become successful, contented and peaceful, just by fixing your relationship with yourself. And without any changes in your surroundings.

It’s all simple. And it’s what you need to do in order to have a meaningful and fulfilling journey, while going after the things you want.

See also:

How to fill the emptiness
Become self-reliant
A life of purpose
Strange questions to help you find your purpose
Loving others without expecting them to fill the void

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Signs You’re Stuck in a Rut (and How to Get Out)

signs you're stuck in a rut and what to do about it

Life has its ups and downs for all of us, but sometimes those downs creep up and take hold without us noticing. All of a sudden we look around and realize that we’ve found ourselves stuck deep in a rut. If you don’t know you’re in a rut, it can be very difficult to get out and this can lead to lasting negative effects on your health and happiness.

So how do you know when you’re in a rut?

And, more importantly, what can you do to get back on track?

One of the biggest red flags that demonstrate that you might be drifting listlessly through your own life is that you spend most of it daydreaming of being somewhere else.

It’s perfectly normal to spend some time in the office wishing you were lying on a beach instead, but if this is a permanent state of affairs, it’s a sign that you’re dangerously bored. Try adding some spontaneity into your life to liven things up a bit, at least until that next vacation.

If you don’t have an exotic location to jet off to, you need to make sure you still have some things to look forward to. If the only thing you have any anticipation for is getting into bed at the end of every day, then you’re definitely in a rut and need to start finding enjoyment in the little things in life, appreciating all of the things that come in between waking up and going back to bed again.

Social media is a great tool for lots of things in our lives. But it can also have a very damaging effect on your mental health because it’s easy to be fooled by the edited highlights of their lives people put on there. This can leave you feeling envious because the day to day reality of your life doesn’t look like what you assume everyone’s life is, so stop obsessing over other people and shift your focus back to yourself.

Doing this shouldn’t come at the expense of actually ever seeing other people or doing anything, of course. So if you’re finding that you are spending all of your time at home rather than getting out and seeing friends, or claiming that you don’t have time to do anything (when the reality is quite the opposite), these are all also signs that you need to think hard about changing your habits.

Nobody ever wants to get stuck in a rut, but in a world where work-life balances are getting ever more hard to maintain and technology is eating into face to face interactions, it’s easy to find yourself wondering where your life went. These tips from NetCredit will help you identify whether you are living yours in a rut and will help you start to find your way out again.

More tips on how to get unstuck:

How to Get Your Motivation Back
How to Boost Your Energy and Vitality for a Successful Life
How to Embrace Acceptance in Life
How to Deal with Indecisiveness