Positive Triggers: What They Are and How to Use Them to Build Better Habits 103

Positive Triggers: What They Are and How to Use Them to Build Better Habits lidiya k lets reach success

Have you ever heard of positive triggers? Here’s how I first uncovered one of mine:

I’ve been placing my glass of water right next to my laptop on my desk for a few weeks. Once it’s empty, I immediately go and get a new one.

The result is that, for the first time in my life, I drink 2 liters of water daily effortlessly, and without even thinking about it too much.

That’s no coincidence. It’s actually an example of one of the simplest, yet most powerful strategies you can use to build a good habit – relying on a positive trigger.

Most people find it hard to drink enough water. They forget about it, skip going to the kitchen (or wherever) to fill a new glass, or else.

But if you have it next to you, things become much more easier.

That’s just a small proof of the effect of positive triggers, what they are and how they can help us turn our behavior from a bad one to a successful one without any pressure or the need to use too much willpower.

What Are Positive Triggers?

The term comes from one of the best books on habits – “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg.

Inside it he explains a concept called The Habit Loop.

It all starts with a behavior that triggers the habit, then we take the action itself, and in the end comes a reward (which is instant gratification when talking about bad habits).

Here’s how Noah Kagan (a successful entrepreneur and Internet marketer, founder of AppSumo) describes that:

“Fortunately whether I’m in a good mood or not I setup positive triggers to make myself take action or feel better.

It’s a handy trick I encourage you to use.

What I do is place things annoyingly in my way or completely out of my way to encourage a positive behavior. Over time these triggers develop into the power of habit which makes it all the more easy.

Here’s a sampling of the ones I currently do:

  • I put my running shoes in my hall way at night. FINE, I can’t get around them in the morning so I go running.
  • There are happy posters by my door so I try to smile as I leave my place. This is one of the best ways to get in a good mood and generate positive thinking.
  • I don’t bring a power cord with me to coffee shops so I am limited to how much time I can work and goof off less. (This is one of my tips & tricks for working alone.)
  • At the office I put some of my important items in a side room where I’m more productive so I tend to go work in that room more often.
  • Placing my scale at the end of my bed so I have to weigh myself each day.
  • My pull-up bar is on my closet door so I tend to do pull-ups each time I get dressed.”

So it all begins with the trigger. And as with everything else in life that includes our role, we’re in control. If we change the trigger, we can even turn bad old habits into successful ones.

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Mindfulness is crucial here. We need to be fully aware when a certain behavior of ours (or even a certain time of the day, location or person – yes, these can also be triggers) leads to another negative one.

Only this way can we stop for a moment, see the bigger picture, and choose not to act. Or even better – to do the opposite, which will be the good habit.

Every smoker (at least from what I’ve seen and heard), for instance, loves having a cigarette with the morning cup of coffee. But not all of them are actually coffee drinkers. And if they eliminate the beverage, they can smoke less.

That’s just a quick example. But things like these matter as in the long term – when done daily – they can reward us with better health, make us more productive, help us fix a relationship, motivate us to get things done, and more.

Choosing The Right Trigger

Here’s what James Clear (an entrepreneur, author and expert in habit formation) says about habit triggers:

“No matter what trigger you choose for your new habit, there is one important thing to understand. The key is to choosing a successful trigger is to pick a trigger that is very specific and immediately actionable.

For example, let’s say you want to build a new habit of doing 10 pushups each day at lunch time. You might start by choosing a time-based trigger and saying something like, “During my lunch break each day, I’ll do 10 pushups.” This might work, but it’s not very specific. Do you do your pushups at the beginning of your lunch break? At the end? Any time?

Alternatively, you could create a trigger around a very specific preceding event that happens right around your lunch break. For example, “When I close my laptop to leave for lunch, I’ll do 10 pushups.” In this case, the very specific action of “closing the laptop” is a perfect trigger for what to do next (your 10 pushups). There is no mistaking when you should do the new habit.”

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Here are some examples of triggers in our daily life and how to easily use them to our advantage:

  1. Waking up.

That’s one of the best examples as everyone usually does the exact same routine ones they wake up.

Some people go brush their teeth or take a shower, others crawl to the kitchen to make coffee, or lie in bed for 5-15 more minutes checking their phone.

There are those, of course, who have a quick workout, meditate, write/read something, or include other great morning habits in their success ritual.

Whatever your first action is, waking up is your trigger. So realize that and let’s make the best of it.

Here’s what you can do to turn the act of leaving bed into one of your positive triggers:

  • put your alarm in the other corner of the room so that you can get up immediately (if you struggle with getting out of bed);
  • put a notebook and a pen beside your bed so you can write something first thing in the morning without using any willpower or even thinking about it (you can start your day with some creative work – write down things you’re grateful for, or things that will make today great so that you can set yourself up for a positive and successful day).
  1. Going to work.

That’s also something you do daily and can’t skip (unless you’re working from home, but the tips are still applicable), so why not include a few good habits.

You can:

  • put your gym shoes and clothes near the door to make sure you get them when you leave(and once you do that you’re much more likely to actually get yourself to the gym);
  • don’t drink coffee at home in order to drink it at the office, which can help you make new friends and dedicate a little more time daily to forming relationships with colleagues. What’s more, if you’re a coffee lover, this will motivate you to arrive at work a bit earlier and make a good impression.
  1. Having breakfast/lunch/dinner.

That’s kind of a ritual as each meal (even if it’s not at the same time every day) happens (most of the times), and you can start associating it with some positive activities.

For example:

  • wash the dishes right after you finish – that’s a great new habit you can develop that will make you more organized;
  • check email or social media only after meals (as otherwise we can do it all the time);
  • floss immediately after breakfast and/or dinner to improve your dental health;
  • drink a glass of water before each meal (to feel full and eat less);
  • do a few pushups before you sit on the table.

Such little actions that take 5 minutes or less turn daily meals into positive triggers.

  1. Watching TV.

If you’re going to do it anyways, why not do crunches, squats or other basic exercises while in front of the screen?

This way you can turn the bad habit into a healthy one.

Over time, you’ll be working out on autopilot without feeling like doing any kind of exercise.

  1. Coming back from work.

This can be the period of the day you dedicate to some quality time with the family.

  1. Going to bed.

You can place a book beside your bed and thus be more likely to grab it and read a few pages before you go to sleep. Also, that’s a much better way to get yourself to sleep, compared to using devices.

  1. The weekend.

Some people go out every weekend, leave the city, meet friends, or dedicate time to hobbies and side projects.

You can also try implementing a new behavior, like cleaning the house every Saturday morning, or writing in your diary each Sunday, assessing the week and saying what you want to accomplish the next one.

So that’s the power of positive triggers. Amazing, right?!

It’s funny how going to the gym feels like a great deal of effort while at home, but if I put my gym clothes in a visible place before I go out, there’s a bigger chance to actually get to the gym and have a productive workout.

Once I’m there, I also drink more water, become more confident, push harder when seeing people around me do the same, and feel accomplished in the end.

And all that can be a result of this little trigger.

So what are the biggest triggers in your life? How can you make them positive?

See also:

Hacking Habits: How to Make New Behaviors Last for Good
How to Trick Your Brain to Hold on to Positive Habit Changes

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Becoming your own boss is a complicated process, and not everyone does it the same way.

I got lucky. I was still working when I got my business off the ground, so I had a source of income while I was working the kinks out of my business. I did most of my work for the new business when I got home or on the weekends. I asked for a change in job responsibilities at the office so that I didn’t have as much on my plate.

This all gave me a chance to start earning money without going into debt. When it was feasible, I stopped working my regular job and transitioned into working for myself full time. It took about a year and a half.

Establish clear boundaries.

 

Sometimes people don’t take you seriously when you tell them that you work for yourself. They think you are always available to chat or have lunch.

I had a number of friends that would call me at all hours, assuming I was available because they wanted to talk. Granted, it was nice to have that freedom at first. But, I soon realized that if I was going to be successful, I couldn’t let those kinds of distractions interrupt my workday.

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I was in pretty good shape when I made the transition, but looking back, a few more months with a paycheck would have been wonderful.

When you start your own business, money can be very tight. You never know what you are going to make month to month.

I had one customer that initially made up most of my revenue. That customer only paid on a quarterly basis, which meant that times were tough in between payments.

I had to spend money to build the business, which meant there wasn’t a lot left over. If I didn’t get a payment right on time, it was very difficult to deal with.

There were times when I had to ask for a loan from family members simply to pay my bills.

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It can be really difficult to adjust at first. You have great days and you have terrible days. You meet goals some months, while other months you are left wondering where you went wrong.

If you make a mistake, you alone are responsible for it and your business and reputation can suffer. It is easy to feel depressed at times. You may even start to feel like you can’t handle running a business and that you made a big mistake when you left your office job.

Remember that you are not alone. All entrepreneurs have these moments, which is why it is so important to connect with others in the field.

Take time for yourself.

I had a honeymoon period of about half a year. It was really exciting to see the business get bigger. Each milestone that I met was a reason to celebrate.

However, heading into the second year, it was more difficult. I was tired. Things weren’t as exciting because they weren’t new anymore. And then, year three came along. I was done with working such long hours.

I was done with having no time off. Burnout is certainly an issue in this business, so you have to figure out how to balance your personal and your professional needs.

It took me a long time to get where I am today. I had to do a lot of research. I had to educate myself on business. I had to find an SEO expert. I had to figure out who my main competitors were and keep an eye on them. I also had to stay current with what was happening in the field so that I didn’t fall behind.

No matter how hard I worked, it seemed like I could never get caught up. Running a business is a big responsibility.

If you are interested in starting your own business, you want to set yourself up for success. Try to cut back on your living expenses. Make sure you have substantial savings. Set up an area in your home where you can work, free from distractions.

If you are married, get your spouse on board. He or she can help pay bills while you are getting your business off the ground.

Your business is only as good as you are.

Make sure you have a support system of other business professionals. These people can help you acknowledge your weaknesses, encourage you to keep moving forward and advise you on common mistakes.

You can try and go it alone, but it will be very difficult for you. As with anything else in life, your support network has a lot to do with your success. You are probably strongly invested in your business; after all, it is something that you created. Make sure you have people that you trust to help you along the way.

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Grace Lee has been practicing in the field of digital marketing for several years now. She has already brought numerous sites in search engines’ first pages in search results. In her spare time, she loves listening to podcasts about Google algorithm updates and other matters related to SEO.